"Capturing the Friedmans"

Apr 12, 2004 6:41 PM
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Pam and I saw the critically acclaimed documentary this weekend ... very thought provoking. Then again, I fucking love good documentaries.

Semi-spoilers follow (I don't think you can really have a spoiler in a documentary, unless you're talking about something like the ending of "Timothy Leary's Dead").

A salient observation: I think the movie isn't about how a family falls apart during a crisis, as the film is often summarized, so much as how disparately people react to a traumatic event. I found the intrafamilial relationships less interesting than the internal ones.

One son is on a near-crusade to tell his side of the story; another is literally absent from the film. The father is surreal in his denial, joyfully playing the piano the day before his incarceration; the mother enters a year-long hysteria.

Similarly, by presenting contradictory accounts and perspectives (overall sympathetic to the family — but it would have to be, to open your mind and prevent you from dismissing them outright) the film's ambiguity gets the audience's own dissonant reactions to parallel the subjects'.


Comments: "Capturing the Friedmans"

Very astute, Facce. I definitely agree that the film is more about how people react to crises rather than just a portrait of a family falling apart (though it's that as well).

But what I thought was so fascinating about it was all the underlying stuff about our current culture's fascination with recording and perserving our lives on film/video. I mean, what in God's name were these people doing videotaping all of this? There's something unsettling about our desire to capture every moment of our lives in snapshots and movies - and something truly disturbing about the way in which the family uses the videocamera as a means of confronting something mind-blowingly unfathomable.

Anyway, I'm done rambling. That movie rocks.

Posted by: Nicardo Autobahn on April 12, 2004 10:08 PM | permalink

Yeah, when we were in Blockbuster, Pam had mentioned that it was on your top ten list.

Also, isn't Great Neck where Jordan came from? I hope that fucknut went to computer classes.

Posted by: Joe Grossberg on April 12, 2004 10:19 PM | permalink

I'd like to point out that we also watched another film this weekend, American Pie 3: American Wedding. I can't believe there are no salient observations regarding the tension between Stiffler and his mother?!

Posted by: Pam on April 13, 2004 12:01 PM | permalink

No more comments! Either someone has violated Godwin's Law, I'm tired of the discussion or, most likely, the ten-week window has closed. You can, however, contact me through email.